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November 2011

Essay on the Importance of Connections for Young People in the face of the Penn State scandal
There are times that I feel as if I am being buried alive, one tablespoon of tabloid dirt at a time. To name names here would be redundant. Besides, they all blur together in blaring headlines like the latest scandal, compliments of Happy Valley, Pa.
Newsday

September 2011

Building Blocks for Boys: Andrew Malekoff offers essential guidelines for working effectively with groups of boys.
Since my earliest experience as a volunteer groupworker in 19731, I have developed, led, supervised, administered, taught and written about groupwork with children and young people.
Building Blocks for Boys

July 23 2011

Newsday: Every Parent's Nightmare
I have not been able to stop thinking about Leiby Kletzky, the 8-year-old boy taken from a Brooklyn street corner earlier this month and brutally murdered. My boys are now in their 20s and they are not Hasidic Jews, but there is something about Leiby's photo that reminds me of them when they were children

July 15 2011 Fox News: Should obese children be taken from their parents?
According to a 2009 study by the U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), roughly two out of three children are likely to grow up to be obese adults. This statistic, among many others, has proven that childhood obesity is a serious problem in the U.S. But what should be done to solve this epidemic?
How to Prevent Childhood Obesity
April 6 2011 New York Times: Abuse of the Disabled
It is terrifying to hear about violence — beatings and sexual abuse — against people with developmental disabilities that is perpetrated by employees charged with their care (“Cuomo to Tighten Requirements for Workers in Homes for Disabled,”
March 24 2011 Albany Times Union: Stop the abuse of N.Y.'s disabled
The alleged cover-up of abuse and violence against people with developmental disabilities is a chilling reminder of our nation's moral decline.
KJOY Radio Island Outlook
Peri Appollo chats with Amy Gordon and Nellie Taylor-Walthrust of the North Shore Child & Family Guidance Center about their organization and its mission to strengthen the emotional well-being of children and families and lead the way in diagnosis, treatment, prevention, training, parent education, and advocacy for L.I. families.
Helping youth to reach new heights: The Respite Wilderness Program
North Shore Child and Family Guidance Center's regionally-acclaimed Respite Wilderness Program was one of a handful of statewide mental health services for teenagers featured in the New York State Office of Mental Health Statewide Comprehensive Plan (2010-2014). The article and photos illustrates the Guidance Center's emphasis on promoting the capacities versus the deficits of youth-at-risk, and on building social skills through the use of group involvement, activities and adventure. Please click on story date link for the full article and photos.
A haven for children from turmoil of family court - Newsday

Press Releases

December 2011 North Shore Child & Family. Guidance Center - Effective January 1, John Grillo, President & Founder of Executive Fliteways, Inc. (EFI), will begin his term as President of North Shore Child & Family Guidance Center.
November 2011 North Shore Child & Family. Guidance Center is proud to partner with Hofstra Men's Basketball at the home game against Manhattan College on Saturday, December 10, 2011 at 4:00 p.m.
October 2011 North Shore Child & Family. Guidance Center - October 22, the Guidance Center hosted its annual gala, "Dancing With Our Stars." The event, with 275 attendees, raised over $230,000.
August 2011 North Shore Child & Family. Guidance Center Received a grant of $1000 from the We Care Fund of the Nassau County Bar Association
August 2011 North Shore Child & Family. Guidance Center Receives Donation from National Council of Jewish Women, South Shore Section
July 2011 North Shore Child & Family. Guidance Center Receives Grant from the Nassau County Criminal Courts Bar Foundation
July 2011 North Shore Child & Family. Guidance Center , honored John T. Adams at its annual Jonathan Krevat Memorial Golf Classic.
July 2011 North Shore Child & Family. Guidance Center received Grant from the Junior League of Long Island
June 2011 North Shore Child & Family. Guidance Center, in partnership with Project Rebirth, hosted a pre-release screening of the critically acclaimed feature-length film, Rebirth
May 2011 North Shore Child & Family. Guidance Center received a grant of $7,500 from the Bethpage Federal Credit Union
May 2011 North Shore Child & Family. Guidance Center Celebrated 2011 Achievement Luncheon at The Royalton at Roslyn Country Club on May 4.
April 2011 North Shore Child & Family. Guidance Center Celebrates Community Unity
April 2011 North Shore Child & Family. Guidance Center Business Advisory Council Hosts Career Fair
March 2011 North Shore Child & Family. Guidance Center Receives Grant from the United Way of Long Island
February 2011 North Shore Child & Family. Guidance Center Receives $15,000 Grant from The O'Sullivan Children
Foundation, Inc.
January 2011 North Shore Child & Family. Guidance Center hosts Community Unity Event
December 2010 North Shore Child & Family. Guidance Center Raises $230,000 at Gala
December 2010 North Shore Child & Family. Guidance Center Receives Grant to Support Project HOPE
October 2010 APA Announces Start of Field Trials for DSM-5. Sites to Test Proposed Diagnostic Criteria in Real-World Clinical Settings
September 2010 North Shore Child & Family Guidance Center has embarked on two significant children's mental health research projects in collaboration with Columbia University.
August 2010 North Shore Child & Family Guidance Center - the leading non-profit children's mental health agency on Long Island, has received a grant of $25,000 from the Long Island Haitian Fund Collaborative.
August 2010 North Shore Child & Family Guidance Center - was the lead agency for the 27th Annual National Night Out: America's Night Out Against Crime, sponsored by the National Association of Town Watch (NATW).
July 2010 North Shore Child & Family Guidance Center - Guidance Center Hosts Annual Golf Classic
July 2010 North Shore Child & Family Guidance Center - We Care Fund of the Nassau County Bar Association
June 2010 North Shore Child & Family Guidance Center - has received a grant of $10,000 from the Manhasset Community Fund's Greentree Foundation "Good Neighbor" Fund
June 2010 North Shore Child & Family Guidance Center - has received a grant of $10,000 from the New York Community Bank Foundation
June 2010 North Shore Child & Family Guidance Center - Receives Funding from the Fay J. Lindner Foundation
March 2010 North Shore Child & Family Guidance Center - Will host its annual Achievement Luncheon on April 22 at the Royalton at Roslyn Country Club.
March 2010 North Shore Child & Family Guidance Center - Received a grant of $15,000 from Newsday Charities, a fund of the McCormick Foundation
January 2010 North Shore Child & Family Guidance Center - Received a grant of $75,000, renewable for up to three years, from the Town of North Hempstead


Anton Community Newspapers, Inc. Monthly Column
By Andrew Malekoff, Executive Director, North Shore Child and Family Guidance Center

November 2011 - The Children's Plan

 

New York State launched an initiative known as The Children's Plan that focused on the promotion of mental health and the treatment of children with emotional disturbances. I was pleased to serve on the statewide work group that was engaged in the development of the Children's Plan.

To understand the need that was addressed, let us take a look at the American reality:

  • One out of 10 children has a serious emotional disturbance;
  • More children suffer from psychiatric illness than from autism, leukemia, diabetes and AIDS combined;
  • Only 1 out of 5 children who have emotional disturbances receive help from a mental health specialist;
  • Emotional disturbances are associated with the highest rate of school dropout among all disability groups;
  • Only 30% of children 14 and older with emotional disturbances graduate with a standard high school diploma;
    Suicide is the third leading cause of death for 15- to 24-year-olds.

At North Shore Child and Family Guidance Center, where our mission is to restore and strengthen the emotional well-being of children and families, these statistics are brought to life daily. We are getting an unprecedented number of emergency calls regarding young people who are so anxious or depressed that they feel that life is no longer worth living. Some live in homes that are like war zones where the rules for survival are: don't talk, don't trust and don't feel. Some are so isolated and lonely that they feel invisible. Others are targets of bias and bullying and suffer in silence.

I will never forget the 12-year-old boy who attended one of our school-based mental health programs - the Intensive Support Program (ISP), a joint venture with the Nassau Board of Cooperative Educational Services. He was a transfer student from a district school where he had struggled to learn and was a target of bullying. Upon his return home from ISP one afternoon, he told his mom, "Mommy, for the first time in my life I feel like a normal kid." His mother told the story to us in tears of relief. One simple sentence, "Mommy, for the first time in my life I feel like a normal kid," and a lifetime of potential had unlocked.

Community-based mental health agencies offer children opportunities to feel competent, fit in with others, stand tall and have a voice. But such agencies cannot do it alone. Early intervention and partnerships with key stakeholders such as pediatricians and teachers is critical.

According to renowned psychiatrist Harold Koplowicz, who heads up the Child Mind Institute in New York City, "The sooner we get these kids help, the sooner they can get back to being kids and growing into happy, successful adults." He calls for pediatricians and teachers to be better trained in identifying the signs and symptoms of emotional disorders and to be empowered to notify parents when a child's behavior falls outside a typical range. His sentiments are reinforced by the key findings and recommendations of the Children's Plan.

We can no longer afford to operate in "silos" of care that are barriers integrating and coordinating mental health care for our children. By working together to nurture all children's potential, we give them the boost that they need to have the best chance for successful futures.

If you are interested in learning more about the Children's Plan go to: http://www.ccf.state.ny.us/initiatives/ChildPlanHome.htm




Past Articles

Connections Count
Hurricane Hangover
REBIRTH
"Building Men for Others"
The Children's Center
No Refuge
When a Child Refuses to Go to School
The One that Got Away from Hallmark
Brutal Teens on Long Island
Parade of Broken Hearts
December 2010 Standing By or Standing Up to Bullies
November 2010 Please Do Fight with Your Teen-ager
October 2010 Friendly Fire
September 2010 "HANG ON"
August 2010 Perfection is Not Lovable
July 2010 Lost Love
June 2010 Homer Simpson on Health Insurance
May 2010 "Will all parenting experts please leave the room!"
April 2010 Making Rounds
March 2010 If your child is not healthy, my child is not safe
February 2010 Red Dot in Haiti, Tear Drops on Long Island
January 2010 Medicaiding-the-System Redux
December 2009 Building Communities of Care
October 2009 Dentally Challenged
September 2009 There Are Just No Words
August 2009 Project Rebirth
July 2009 Hello Dalai
June 2009 "Mind Over Matter?"
May 2009 From Romper Room to the Rubber Room
April 2009 "If your child is not healthy, my child is not safe"
March 2009 Bringing Voice and Visibility to Immigrant Youth
Eyes Wide Shut
Natalie Ciappa's Law



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